how? why?

How did I get here?

Why am I here?

Why do I stay?

Well, the answer to these question are in my bio.

This posting is really about my personal rules that I impose upon myself at this Amino.

1) Follow Amino rules.

    Well in addition to being rude, I would be politely asked to leave (like booted out the door!).

2) Be completely open.

      I know having a straight guy on his website could cause some concerns for some people. Hence, my bio is quite extensive; it is honest and straightforward .

3) I rarely "follow" someone first.

     I do no want to come across as a old guy stalker.

4) If someone "follows me" I will always follow them back.

     We are here to primarily socialize and look for , and post poetry and art.

5) Unless invited, I stay out of chat rooms.

     I realize that most chat rooms here are a place where queer people can hang out with each other.

6) I am not here to "date".

     Although I believe that people should have the right to a pluralistic relationship, it’s not for me. I am rather happy to be married to one beautiful person.

     I have told a few lost souls that this is not a dating site, but a place for queer people to be themselves, to meet individuals who have the same orientation. Besides, a can’t figure out why someone would be interested in an old bald guy like me! :smile:

7) Ghosting is ok with me.

     If someone starts a chat with me (and does not check out my bio), and then just goes away because I answered their question (like, "Are you single? How old am I? What is my orientation?) AND did not like my answer… well ghosting me is ok. I give one last open invitation before moving on. I do keep the chat open for a little while, just in case they have a change of heart, but with will not pursue a conversation (I don’t want to appear to be an old guy stalker).

8) at the moment, can’t quite what rule 8 is (old guy syndrome), but I will add it as soon as it comes up.

So. I hope that this posting helps alleviate any anxiety or fear that you may have when you discover my presence on this website :star:

OH OH OH… now I :

8) Most important - I never ask for photos!