Hey guys. So, unfortunately, lately, I have been going through some hard times.
Lately, I have been feeling kind of lost. I feel like I really can’t find who I TRULY am. I have also had a lot of lack in confidence lately.
At my school (you don’t get to know what grade), I don’t know, I just feel like I don’t have any friends. I started school on Thursday, August 15th. And I just feel like everyone is in groups of friends, and I’m not. I’m sitting alone at the lunch table, quietly occasionally chatting with some friends from my old school. I feel like I don’t wear the right clothes, like I feel left out. Lack of confidence has always been a problem with me, but it’s really hitting me hard.
A lot of people have told me that I matter, that I am beautiful, that I can be who I want. But, I don’t know, I just have a hard time believing it.
I always feel like I can’t look at the “popular girls”, because they might shoot me a dirty look, or look at me like I am ugly or something.
This might be too much information, it may not. I don’t know. Just wanted to share what is happening. Just trying rn to fix my confidence, which is gonna take a while, and also find some motivation, or some sort of solution.
Peace :v:
~Brigitte
Comments (9)
Bri.... You don't need other people's opinions of you! Think about the people that do love you, online, offline. It doesn't matter what color, gender, sexuality, or even hobbies to make up a person. Try to start being nice to everyone, boy and girl. Starting hanging around and soon. You'll have a group of your own! I hope I helped and you DO know you can always come to me gorl.
Love, Mo. :blue_heart:
I actually went through the EXACT same thing as you last school year! We had just moved, and it was a new school for me. I had absolutely no friends at all, and trust me, there was nothing but popular kids in my homeroom. I finally made two good friends, but they turned out to be fakes. One turned against me to get the popular girls to like her, and the other only talked lies. I was pretty upset and it gave me alot of stress. I cried alot during those times, and I couldn't sleep most nights. Until, I found her. I found my best friend that helped me through everything.http://aminoapps.vertvonline.info/p/holucj here is her amino. She is the most amazing person ever!! I could trust her, talk with her, rant with her XD go to events with her, and we even hung out after school sometimes. She is the best. And her mom was cool too xD. But all I'm saying is that hard times can be good for you. Because they teach you lessons, make you mentally stronger, and it gives you character, and you see how you can handle tough situations. It's good practice for Adulthood. And lemme jus say, I was a soggy cake a few months ago, anything would make me sad or upset, but after all my problems were over, I found myself not letting things get to me as easily. I felt like a new better part of me.
Hello Misty! Ty so much for your comment, it is good for me to hear that someone is/was going through the same thing as me.
I get what your going through but the truth is that it doesn’t matter what other people think! Just wear what you want because you are beautiful and no one can tell you different! Don’t let other people tell you what to wear!
Okay, haven’t read the whole thing yet, got to the clothes part. Here I am. It doesn’t matter what clothes you wear I used to think it did too but if your gonna have actual friends, then they ain’t gonna care what your wearing. I wear stripes and shorts. And it will take time to meet people. I met my best friend through a group project. Maybe you will too!
Edit: ah, the ‘popular’ girls. The ones at my school are annoying and they remind the teacher about our loads of homework. No offense to any popular people in SSOA, sure your nice but if they give you a dirty look, stare them down until they look away, then smirk at them or kindly smile and walk away. ;)
as you can see, i have a pRoBlEm with popular people. heh.
oops this is long. Well anyway if you need or want to talk to someone, i got you.
Thank you! Good advice
Reply to: Brigitte Eventing
heh i don’t mess around with pOpUlAr PeOpLe. I got all the advice you need :D