soooooo after some time and research i believe it is safe for me to say that my sexual orientation is "Queer".
i know i know, labels don't really matter. i could've just settled with not having a label but idk idk idk; how my brain works, i like having labels (when it comes to representing myself).
this wiki i found on here about the term queer, really accurately fits me, in of sexuality (not gender); but it seems like the word could be used interchangeably to describe both gender and/or sexuality.
here's the best description of my sexuality that i could manage to put together;
im cisgender (she/her) and mainly attracted to androgynous/masculine females and trans boys. i am attracted to cis boys but only if i feel a deep emotional connect to them (like someone who is demisexual would feel, i think)
other than that i find cis boys attractive but im uninterested in anything sexual unless the emotional connection is there. but for masculine females and trans boys it's..normal attraction?? like im naturally drawn to them, like i don't need an emotional basis to find them attractive. idk if that made sense but i tried :,)
but yeah that's it lololol i hope i didn't say anything accidentally offensive or anything :,))) if so then im super sorry.
but yeaa that's enough of my rambling lolol
Comments (9)
why do you seperate trans guys and cis guys? like what would make you attracted to a trans man but not a cis man? just curious.
Reply to: cryptidsclaws
you're correct, again i cannot give you a better answer than the one i just gave you. that was the best i could do. sorry if you found this offensive but there's really no better explanation that i could give you.
Reply to: 🦋 :sunflower: 𝒹𝒾𝒶𝓂𝑜𝓃𝒹🧚🏽♀ :sparkles:
it's not offensive I just don't really get it. either way, id be curious to know why you chose the label q*eer instead of just bisexual or something?
Reply to: cryptidsclaws
because the definition of bisexual means being attracted to boys and girls...not every androgynous/masculine female identifies as a girl, they could be genderfluid or nonbinary..which means that they could feel as if they are both boy and girl or neither; meaning they feel they are genderless...if i identified as bisexual that would exclude them, excluding them would be odd to do if i am attracted to them...