So a few years ago, back when I thought I was Bi and not Pan, I came out to a gay friend and told her I was Bi. I told her I just like both and I want to continue liking both.
And her response was... when are you going to choose a side?
I felt horrible and didn’t know how to respond. I thought if anything someone in the lgbt+ community wouldn’t ask me such a hash question. Do other gay people really feel like bi/Pan people are just wishy washy? It’s honestly been such a deterrent since.
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Hey if it makes you feel better I am pan and I’ll be “bi” your side always(sorry I love bad puns)
Who doesn't
Haha no I love it :ok_hand:
There isn't always just "one side". Love who you love, and do it proudly. If you're bi, say so confidently so people won't have reason to question. And I'm sure Pansexual people have the same issue, so don't worry. You're not alone. :)