So here is my confession :
So here is my personal flag ^^ I am demisexual :p I want to finally "coming out" I don't know.
Even my family don't know it yet because actually I really don't know how I could tell them or if it's worth to say it and start an argument or anything. Actually, I just don't even know how they would react... They could just don't legitimate my feels and try to convince me I am not what I think I am or try to convince me that it's just a phase. So... Yeah... Here it is. I just... Yeah. That's my flag and I want to wear it proudly but I first need to tell the truth so here is my confession to conclude that.
For those who don't know here is the definition of my own of what demisexuality is : As you know, the gender is on a spectrum. Same goes to sexuality. Everyone of you is in that range between sexual and asexual. Demisexual is exactly in the middle. Concretely, that means I have no desire of sexuality unless I find someone I love and trust for real. Don't think that I don't like sexual thing. My body could like it, but my head is really not in the mood. For one night stand as an example. I would absolutely prefer a cute and wonderful night with the one I love than a stranger. Even tho his or her sexual capacities and exceptional. My mind wouldn't be in the mood.
And for my orientation, I am not sure yet, but I am almost sure that I am pan (in my romantic and sexual orientation).
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