What is your name?
My name is Cavi tho I don't use it irl cause I'm not out to anyone :skull:
Also since it's not asked anywhere I'll specify my age, I just turned seventeen.
What pronouns do you use?
I go by they/them and he/him in English, no preferences and by Il/lui in French
Hobbies / ions?
I LOVE drawing, I also really enjoy listening to music (who doesn't?) and I get really quickly into any piece of media I consume so my interests for series/videogames/mangas just change frequently.
What song/s are you playing on repeat right now?
Lately it's been "It's Called: Freefall" by Rainbow Kitten Surprise but honestly it changes way too often
Favourite work of art?
Uhh I don't know but my favourite artist which is a huge inspiration for me is Cheapcookiez on Instagram, I really love their work!!
Quote to live by:
"Future me will handle it." I say it way too often, future me doesn't handle anything most of the time but yea-
Do you have a LGBTQ+ role model? Who? Why?
Brigette Lundy Paine is one of my role model! Because on top of being a really good actor they're out as non binary and openly sapphic! I also really see Cavetown (the singer) as a model, his songs are really making me feel less alone and I ire litteraly any public trans figure-
Pick a song, artwork, and text (story or poem) that describes you. Why?
The song "F.U.S." by Motherfolk reminds me of myself but I honestly don't know why, it's the overall vibe and the lyrics combined I guess.
Gender Journey:
When did you start questioning?
I first started questioning my gender around 8th grade when my siblings best friend came out as trans. I guess I realised that it was really "a thing" and that it was possible to live as another gender than your agab. But i kind of thought I shouldn't be questioning so I ignored it till the beginning of high school where I met a lot of trans people and I also got my first phone so I could access a lot of media that helped me figure out who I was and how I wanted to be perceived.
How do you identify?
I currently identify as agender or something nearby, I've been identifying as such for about two years, but I'm starting to question wether I might be a trans man, and it's scaring the hell out of me
Do you experience any gender or social dysphoria?
YES omg yes- I'm grateful that I don't have much body dysphoria, just for my chest and thighs but that's about it, but I experience a lot of social dysphoria, I try to ignore it but honestly I don't know how many time I can still hear someone call me by she/her pronouns before bursting into tears.
Are you out to anyone?
I'm *technically* out to my oldest sibling and 2 of my close friends, but not completely. I was afraid to make a big deal out of it so I didn't really came out, I just bought a non binary pin- So they don't even know my preferred name and pronouns, I don't know how to tell them.
I'm only completely out to 1 rando from my school :skull: we teamed up for an assessment and they asked for my pronouns, so I told them- I never felt anything like when they wrote "them" on the paper. It was so validating, shout-out to that person who made a little bit of my stress go away <3
Who do you plan to come out to?
Uhhhhhhh I'd like to come out to all of my friends and my siblings, but I don't know if I'll ever be capable of doing so. My social anxiety & lack of comprehension of social cues doesn't make it any easier, I'm already scared to look like an absolute fool every time I open my mouth so I'm not sure I'll be able to tell something this important someday. But I know I need to cause I'm really gonna explode if I don't tell anyone lmao
Do you know anyone IRL who is LGBTQ+?
Yeah, almost all of my friends are either gay or bi, my oldest sibling is also non binary and bi, and I know a few other people who are LGBTQ+. I'm lucky to live in a country were it's not too dangerous to be out (at least not in small city like where I live).
Pick three things that describe your gender
Flannel shirts, rain on windows, dandelions? Idk lmao
(all the pictures are sort of self portraits I did, they look different cause some are older than others :skull: but dm me if you need the proofs)
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