Do you feel it now or have you felt it in the past from others, in any way?
:dizzy: Some of my friends feel pressure from their partners or parents to have children.
:dizzy: Some may put pressure on themselves in education. ing test, graduating, homework ...etc.
:dizzy: Pressure in the work field. Getting a promotion, helping the business grow or starting your own thing and getting it going from the ground up.
:dizzy: Pressure in a relationship to get married or to get a nicer house and make more money. Ppl feel pressure in a number of ways, by different ppl in their lives so I figured I'd make this post and asked you all the question.
:milky_way: Look forward to reading the answers.
Comments (30)
Pressure to be susccessful by conforming to societys standards pressure to continue my depence on psych drugs
Reply to: Tiara Miller
Society has the worst set of standars there is. Stay true to whatever morals you believe in.
Pressures I go through:
"When are you going to get married? He has to be a "good Jewish boy""
"When are you having kids?"
"You need to go to Law School."
"Get a house, I hear Long Island has some nice ones or the Hamptons"
"You're too thin, eat! *next day* Look at you, you're too big."
"Get a career! Don't stay with dance for too long, you won't make much money."
"Name one of your kids after me."
"Carry on our traditions."
" our prayers."
"Make sure you go to the high holidays."
"Keep kosher."
Reply to: Yasmina :sunflower:
So just a few.
:grin:
Reply to: Ledge
Yeah sure, Ledge, just a few
I'm the only one of the older cousins who is not married or in a relationship and it's annoying a bit now. I never bring dates to family gathering but some do and its like "Why?"
Reply to: Jules
Lol I feel you on that.
Mee rn