BT // Selena Relationship

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for this new blog, i’ll talk about selena relationship, so now let’s go!

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Nick Jonas

Back in 2008, Gomez dated Nick Jonas in a Disney channel match made in heaven. She even appeared in the Jonas Brothers’s ‘Burnin’ Up’ music video, which came out the same year Gomez and Jonas were said to be dating. Though it never became anything serious.

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Taylor Lautner

Gomez also briefly dated actor Taylor Lautner in 2009. In the September cover story for Seventeen, Gomez explained to the magazine that the two met while she and Lautner were both in Canada working (she was filming Ramona and Beezus and Lautner was shooting The Twilight Saga: New Moon).

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The Justin Bieber era

Gomez and Bieber were first spotted together in 2010 having pancakes. The seemingly innocent short stack would set into motion a relationship with countless breakups and even more songs that would be inspired by each other (and analyzed by fans).

For a while, things seemed to be going great for the celebrity couple known as Jelena.

In 2011, Bieber even rented the Staples Center in LA for a private dinner and a movie on the court. But breakup rumors started when Bieber was named in a paternity suit in November 2011 that was later determined to be false.

The two seemed to be alright afterwards, but in November 2012 they called it quits for the first time - although they were spotted together again the very next month.

This, of course, began a series of on-again, off-again moments that saw them through to the spring of 2018. And any hopes of a Jelena reunion were officially crushed when Bieber proposed to model Hailey Baldwin in July 2018.

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Zedd

Gomez was said to be dating DJ and producer Zedd in the winter of 2015 when the two were working together on their single ‘I Want You To Know.’

Neither confirmed the romance while they were together, but in July 2015, Gomez set the record straight in an interview, saying, “I adore Anton [Zedd] a lot and I definitely had a thing with him, which was nice.”

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Niall Horan

In December 2015, Gomez and former One Direction singer Niall Horan created buzz when they were spotted out together, which Gomez denied, explaining the two were just friends.

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Charlie Puth

In 2016, Gomez was said to be seeing singer Charlie Puth (the two released the song ‘We Don’t Talk Anymore’ that same year). Gomez never confirmed anything, but years later, Puth told Billboard that the relationship was “very short-lived.”

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Abel Tesfaye

One relationship that Gomez definitely confirmed during this time was with singer Abel Tesfaye, better known as The Weeknd. The pair were first spotted together in early 2017, and drama quickly followed when The Weeknd’s ex, model Bella Hadid, unfollowed Gomez on Instagram. But the two seemed to be going strong, traveling together, and making their red carpet debut at the Met Gala in May 2017. Though the next few months saw Gomez attending The Weeknd’s concerts and even another red carpet couple moment, in October 2017, Gomez was back with Bieber.

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Selena’s feelings

In an interview with NPR, the singer discussed her ups and downs with Bieber, and their final goodbye in March 2018.

"I've found the strength in it," she said. "It's dangerous to stay in a victim mentality. And I'm not being disrespectful, I do feel I was a victim to certain abuse."

When asked if she specifically meant "emotional abuse," Gomez responded, "Yes." She continued: "I had to find a way to understand it as an adult. And I had to understand the choices I was making. As much as I definitely don't want to spend the rest of my life talking about this, I am really proud that I can say I feel the strongest I've ever felt and I've found a way to just walk through it with as much grace as possible."

CNN has reached out to Bieber's representative for comment.

Gomez revealed that her song "Lose You to Love Me," was about the pain of getting over their breakup.

"I'm very proud of it," she said of the song. "It has a different meaning to me now from when I wrote it. I felt I didn't get a respectful closure, and I had accepted that, but I know I needed some way to just say a few things that I wish I had said." But it wasn't all bad with Bieber.

"It's not a hateful song; it's a song that is saying -- I had something beautiful and I would never deny that it wasn't that," Gomez added. "It was very difficult and I'm happy it's over. And I felt like this was a great way to just say, you know, it's done, and I understand that, and I respect that, and now here I am stepping into a whole other chapter."

Gomez says her new album, "Rare," is in response to people trying to control the story of her life.

"The reason why I've become so vocal about the trials and tribulations of my life is because people were already going to narrate that for me," she said. "I wasn't going to have a choice because of how fast everything moves now. Most of the time, yes, it's not true, or it's an embellished version of what the truth is. I want to be able to tell my story the way that I want to tell it."

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Look At Her Now

i asked you what did you prefer to see and that’s the answer, and i’m absolutely agree because look at her now :