what ways your s/o uses to communicate

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update 8th june 2025: IM CRYING LAUGHINAHWJWHWJAH atp I cant even proofread everything cause it’s funny🥀 it was good tho so yh enjoy your read

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TW: NSFW, tr*uma, mental h*alth

what are the ways your s/o communicate? How do they express their love? What are their signs? This pick a pile will try to answer this

now, breathe in

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and breathe out

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think of a special scenario with your s/o or a memory you have only of them, and pick the crystal you are most attracted to

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Pile One - Tiger’s eye

pile one, your s/o seems either a fire or earth sign, very expressive with their love, open to help you out, and definitely a protective type.

They seem to have sometimes issues with itting with words that they miss you, yet they are very bold regarding their expression of love. They don't seem to be comfortable using standard affirmative words such as "I love you" or "I missed you", they are instead the type of buying you flowers on their way casually, because they thought of you by looking at that red rose. They are romantic, but in their own way.

They seem to like cuddles or at least the physical touch type. They're mainly the logical person in the couple, their communication is based on what makes sense, what's logical and concrete. They might in fact give you solutions instead of comforting you if you cry or vent.

They are the kind of person that would communicate rarely because their actions speaks for them. Don't get me wrong, it's not that they never actually butter you with sweet words, they actually do, but their actions speak louder for this pile. It can cause issues sometimes since they don't say something they categorize as obvious, and so, they end up having regrets, maybe during fights caused by misunderstandings, because in norm they seem to say something they don't mean out of anger.

They are the type of person that when you ask them for a sign, they go extreme. They *want* you to absolutely understand and see it clearly, they would go even as far as manifesting themselves in dreams. They prefer you asking them a unique sign, something that only them can do or think of while seeing you, they hate banality, but they don't mind something small that is special to both of you, they might not send you the sign you are asking for if it's something common around you or means nothing

that's it pile one, here are some random things that might or might not resonate

red, fire, leo, sagittarius, virgo, fight, green, seoul, dreams, hugs, plushies, jealousy

here's a pic that might have the traits of ur s/o

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Pile Two - Citrine

this pile.... is wild. Your s/o unlike pile one, really never expresses themselves into words, they might even say the opposite of what they mean. They are the loveliest people, but they really act like very good friends instead of actually lovers. They feel super uncomfortable with expressing their love, it can be either physically or emotionally, or maybe both

but the thing is... y'all probably fight over this and instead of fighting back, they go wild with s*x. There are defo tons of misunderstandings, they are nice with everyone and you probably don't like it cause you can't understand whether they love you or not. They aren't the type of confirming this to you with words, and they definitely lack of actions too, but, they dedicate to you the time, they have memories of you all over the place, they think of you constantly, but they will never show you this, they see it as a weakness

they are a natural born teacher i'm seeing, they guide you throughly, they dedicate to you stuff maybe you don't consider important, but for them, it's their way of showing you how important you are. Start noticing this, because they will never confront you about it and they might actually get hurt or angry

they aren't the type of "obeying" to you and manifesting signs, they want to be themselves, if you are asking for a sign, they would do what they want to make you understand it in their own way, but without actually sending you what you asked for (they seem maybe to have insecurities or some sort of bad mental state?)

they are learning more about it with you, they are tryna make you happy and be happy, maybe just happy together even with their awful communication :skull:

that's it for pile two, here are random signs that might or might not resonate

scorpio, Lee Know, skz, memories, physical pain, trauma, levanter, mirror, aquarius, blue

here's pics that might have traits of your s/o

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Pile Three - Howlite

I think this might sound unexpected for some, but your s/ o expresses their words with you very clearly. They are the types to love poetry, they would dedicate to you a song and sing to you the lyrics because they think this of you (this pile is making me smile hardcore)

I can clearly see them waiting for you under the rain in front of your house after a fight, they are feelers (mbti thing, can't express it better than this sorry-) but they only are with you, it is not something they do with others, I actually think others might find them intimidating or cold instead, that's why for some this might be a bit surprise, for others, you probably already know because you scripted it :bow: ‍♀

their communication is strong, they *will* make sure you understand, they are very neat, clear, logical, very logical (almost heartless for some). They surprisingly express themselves very clearly even with actions, they *will* make sure you understand why they made something or bought something, and they dedicate to you time, for them, time is something they barely have, so it's as if they are giving you a part of them

they expect you to do the same with them, they are very insecure, under that strong thicc mask, there's a softie that is questioning why such a bright person is with them, when you ask them for a sign, they literally just obey, they are the type of just manifesting it even after seconds, nothing extreme tho, so make sure to have sharp eyes and awareness

they have a calming energy, just like their neat ]communication, y'all barely fight because they don't get mad, they don't yell, and they are very understanding here are random signs that might or might not resonate

entj, isti, yellow, protection, wards, gemini, clear, capricorn "we will meet soon" is something I heard, also "wait for me" and "don't look at others"

Here’s pics that might have traits of ur s/o

(I cant find the female version that I included in the past in this blog, mb)

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Pile Four - Tree Agate

this is just another level 🫡. Your s/o is bold af about their feelings, they confront you, they don't hide. But ironically? They hide everything else. It's like a ninja tryna win your heart (I can't even take myself seriously atp)

they are the one making the moves here, they don't care what people thinks of them or you, I think people might either have prejudices about you or them (or maybe your relationship) but they really don't give an absolute fuck.

They communicate mainly with actions, they fade in to please you. I think in this pile there might be people that didn't script a s/o, and this person is tryna win you over, and the rest is all up to you

their communication in a sense it's manipulative, but in a good sense. It's not to harm you, but rather to make you feel comfortable enough to be with them and understand you better. I'm seeing here too some wild af s* to express their anger? because they defo aren't the temperamental person, but sometimes, unlike the howlite pile, they might explode

when I said manipulative? they are sneaky, they would demonstrate to others that you are theirs without using their mouth, it's hard even for me to understand what can you do, because they do everything, it's as if they are literally saying "just be with me, i'll think of the rest, be mine"

they are definitely feelers, with you and others, but, it's revolving into this logical sphere, they are smart, they are loved by others, this can cause you to be jealous, but they like it, I think in a sense that's what's fueling ur communication?????? You already understand each other without freakin talking

their emotions are deep, deeper than you think, deeper than they show, look out for that. When you ask them for signs, they do it but they are so subtle, it's as if they like games, but are impatient at the same time. That's it pile four, here are some signs that might or might not resonate

infi, black, dark academia, hiding intentions, In the morning - Itzy (specifically "do it like mafia"), taurus, pisces

Here’s some pics that might have your s/os traits

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Pile Five - Amethyst

unlike pile four that is happy pleasing, this softie af pile, is actually getting hurt from it. Your s/o thinks excessively of you and for you, there's no communication and you aren't doing any effort either, they are too shy to set on boundaries and even to tell you what makes them uncomfortable because they don't want to hurt you. They are cute af protect them at all cost

They are slowly learning, their way of communication depends on dedicating everything to you, words, time, gifts and actions, they rely especially on gifts and actions because they feel like their words aren't enough to make you as happy as they want you to be.

They are hopeless romantics, but they need that energy reciprocated, because they are very insecure and they overthink a lot. They want to receive a lot more from you, they want you to hug them, to give them stuff that you find cute, to have pictures of them. They are hard to understand, they are literally a switch

You might fight a lot because of that, they never express what's wrong, but they accumulate a lot inside of them, to the point that they rly explode (cutely tho, I see cute tears :disappointed: ) they are a very funny and energetic person, but unlike what you are assuming rn, they are either introverts or ambiverts

when you ask them for a sign, they are most likely to ignore you if y'all had misunderstandings, this pile more than the others need some big work on communication

that's it for pile five, here are some signs that might or might not resonate

cancer, master, maneskin, purple, sagittarius, infp

here's some pics that might have your s/o traits

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that's it for this blog, lemme know in the comments what pile you chose, keep in mind this is a pick a pile, some stuff might resonate and others might not, take what matters and leave the rest, if nothing resonates, then this post is not supposed to find you rn <3