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Hey ya'll
First of all I'm sorry I haven't been posting poems recently but I will post some again soon.
Second of all, I'm bad at making actual blogs but this is something I feel like I need to share.
About this post:
I feel like a lot of people will come at me for what I'm about to write and I love to hear everyone's opinion on this in the comments but please just don't be rude.
So let's get right into it
As a lot of you guys probably already know, there is this ongoing discussion whenever the term Pansexual is needed or if it's just the fancy and more open new term of bisexuality.
It is not at all.
Bisexual and Pansexual are two different things and each of them is valid. So then there is the "Pansexual is just bisexual without preference" and once again, no not at all.
I think this misunderstanding comes from the gender blind love thing in which pansexuality is described but If you'd actually just take a little more effort to look at this logically... right the preference is not the gender.
It's simple, so as an example: A pansexual person can have more female lovers due the fact that they simply like sensitive personalities. I'm not saying that men can't be sensitive but it more rare that it is with women. And that is the preference. That's it.
It's not that hard but all the "if you have a preference that makes you bisexual" talk can be toxic and I find it just invalidating. The LGBTQ+ community especially, should be a place where you get acceptance, so why fighting on such trivial things. Please just accept the people instead of making them feel invalid.
I'm sorry if some parts of this sounded harsh, I just really had to get this off my chest cause it has been bothering me for quite a while.
Thank you for taking the time to read what I had to say and stay safe ya'll
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Comments (129)
so i really like using the term pansexual because i know that i absolutely could love anyone of any gender, but i feel like majority of the time i'm just so much more attracted to women? Maybe that's just because i'm dating a girl right now and it's overwhelming but even when i was dating a boy I still thought that girls, or at least feminine people, were more attractive and it's confusing the fuck out of me
It’s absolutely okay if you feel like that as long as you feel comfortable with it. Sadly people tend to misunderstand the definition of it and behave toxic which is why I made that post^^
I genuinely thought that pan meant that you didn’t care about gender and wouldn’t have preferences while bi meant that you had preferences??? (Sorry if this offended anyone).
It's not offensive it's simply asking:) It's true that pansexuality means having no preference in gender but it doesn't mean it's completely without a preference at all. I hope I helped^^
I am pansexual and I love this post! Thank u so much for writing this!
For me i am more likely to see a girl and think that she's pretty than to see a guy and think that he's handsome, but that's only if i don't know the person. In of actual attraction, each gender has an equal chance as long as their personality is right. And my initial attraction is always based on face rather than gender. I just like a softer looking face and girls are more likely to have that than guys
That also count as pan because, it doesn’t really mean you just like all genders but you can pick a masculine figure or feminine figure! That’s mostly the definition of pan.
bless this post!
people at my school always ask if i'm bisexual because it's a term they're all used to.
being vocal about being pan, they would always say that it's the same as bisexuality because there are only two genders and I always have to explain that yes there are two biological genders, but there are people who arent either, are both, or fluxuate their pronouns and they're all valid!
tl;dr: to non-binaries, genderfluid, bigender, etc., YOU ARE VALID AND BI AND PAN ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS AND THEY HAVE A CHOICE TO LOVE TWO/ALL :punch: :pensive: :two_hearts: