What is your sexual orientation?
So i recently discovered this about myself but i'm pansexual
What is your romantic orientation?
Panromantic
What is your gender?
Questioning its gotten really confusing with some of my recent diagnoses
What is your sex?
female
What pronouns do you use?
I've been using any pronoun
How long have you been in the lgbtqa+ community for?
i've been out since my junior year of high school but I didn't start hanging around the community till this year. I'm the president of my college's pride and I'm trying to do more.
Have you ever dated anyone in the lgbtqa+ community? if yes, explain what they identify as
Not yet
How did you find out about the lgbtqa+ community?
i had a friend who came out during high school and slowly started to learn more. I also recently ed i had watched I am Jazz when i was still new to things.
Do you have any friends in the lgbtqa+ community?
yep i'm part of my school's pride group and i just realized i'm close to being fresh out of straight friends.
Have you ever been at a pride event?
does being in a pride group count? cause if not i'm probably going to Boston pride this year
On a scale 0-10, how confident are you with your sexuality?
i'd say like a 6 i'm not quite sure the label fits but hey i am learning about myself
On a scale 0-10 how confident are you with your gender?
1, i'm still questioning
Are you out to anyone yet?
Yep everyone i'm know knows because i don't shut up
Do your parents know about your gender/sexuality?
yep they do. i'm trying to get my mom to go to a PFLAG meeting.
Do you ever get misgendered?
yes, because people assume I’m female and not just you know a person
Have you gotten any hate for your gender/sexuality?
not yet, i'm waiting for it. i know it's going to happen at some point but it hasn't happened yet.
In all honesty, do you think that there's a sexuality that might not be valid?
no, just be careful out there if you id as something outside of the 2 sexes and the "main" identities (bi, gay, ace). i used to think the internet was stupid for coming up with stuff like fawngender but my friend told me it's more about the experience than the identity and identifying with an experience is valid just don't expect people to understand right away.
Do you own any pride merch?
i own a bi pride flag and a trans pride flag. i'm probably going to pick up a pride shirt eventually
Do you think that there's a possibility that you might change your mind about your orientations/gender in the future?
yes very much so
What are your thoughts on people that identify as cis?
i'm only here because two cis heterosexual (i think) people got busy one night and had me. i'm cool with cis hetro people
What are your thoughts on people that identify as straight?
i'm only here because two cis heterosexual (i think) people got busy one night and had me. i'm cool with cis hetro people
If someone saw you on the street, would they realize that you are in the lgbtqa+ community? if yes, why?
probably i have a short hair cut love flannels and own a pair of work boats. i have that look actually fun story when i was talking to a person and i said "people look at me and when i mention i had a boyfriend they won't believe it" the person said "i didn't think you had a boyfriend"
On a scale 0-10 how familiar are your friends and family with the lgbtqa+ community?
they try i can't fault them for that sometimes everyone i talk to mess up
This tag is almost over, did you enjoy it?
yep
Do you love yourself for who you are?
kind of
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