My dad and I been in debate. Abt how I was not bi. He said I was curious when I told him I had a crush on a girl. That I have to date and kiss one to confirmed if I am bi. But what if I don't like them Fr there ugly or something.?!? Or.…. I prefer more guys than girls they said even there lgbtq friends say this! Am I right or is he ?
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I’m going to give you my answer, but I’m not going to assign who is right.
Lesbians can have a crush on the impossibly perfect man.
they are found in fiction
does it mean that they are bisexual or pansexual, or that they somehow broken away from being lesbian ?
no. not at all.
its your primary attraction that rules here.
and what you are in of a label is only suitable if it helps you
no one else should be labeling you and no one else should be trying to prevent you from changing labels
I am a woman who grew up, attracted to the girls in my age group, and occasionally celebrity, crushing on women who were outside my age group
I never could quite figure out if I wanted to be them or be with them
i’ve married twice and all of my in person dates i’ve been with girls or women
i’ve served as an officer in a high school girls group that have about 13 to 18-year-olds in it.
some of those girls I’m still in with through social media
One of them has a son a couple years older than my son
I think we can establish that my primary attraction is to women.
Twice I have found specific men attractive to me, and I figured out that there was a particular type that was triggering. Curiosity in me.
regardless of how girlish this might sound, and how I was an adult at the time I wanted to kiss… And perhaps hug or cuddle… But not experience penetrative sex
it quickly became clear to me that they were willing to play, but we’re also going to insist on going right over my boundaries
So I dropped it
my seven years of exploration and social media meeting a disassociative identity disorder, net work on another continent
One of the head mates … Took a liking to me and we were a virtual couple for about a month.
romance, not sexting.
18-year-old have any gender… Seem to have between four and five weeks of attention span before they move on, and he was no different in that respect
I moved on it was not available to him when he decided he wanted me back
I enjoyed the attention from him. But my dalliance with him online doesn’t include anything that I feel I would need to explain to a potential partner so that they could decide if I was still Goldstar.
If you’re hetero bi pan or lesbian, important question is how do you feel about the label? Does it fit you? No one should tell you what to think about yourself, and you are allowed to redefine yourself at any time
Reply to: Elspeth
I don't understand what's the deal with the Gold Star concept. Is it used as a shaming concept? I know what it means, but I don't necessarily understand why it needs to be used at all, or even the reason behind its creation. Because I see it as the same as people focusing on body counts. Nothing wrong with that either as long as everyone is being safe. And people don't have to solidify themselves to a label. Might as well create a flaming black star label for me.
But I like your points.
We should debate sometimes.
Or create a wide discussion about this.