:bangbang: ATTENTION :bangbang:

Self harm comes from pain. Could be physical, mental, emotional. But that's were the seed is planted. Just pretend that suicide is a weed, a weed that looked beautiful on the outside but inside it's slowly killing it's the other plants. The other plants are the person's emotions. When you plant a seed of a rose, but it ends up a weed, you don't cut the weeds stem. You uproot it. So when talking to a suicidal person you don't talk them out of suicide you find out why their suicidal. Then you have to try to help to stop the weed from growing. If the problem is lonelyness, make them feel loved. If the problem is abuse, someone who can help. Things like that. But when you have a weed you uproot it, or it'll grow back. I have personal experience with this and no one new. My friend he was lonely and then I became his friend, he was suicidal. He told me if it weren't for me the night I friended him he was going to go suicide. A company isn't going to help, they never do. Make the person feel like there are no problems, be their friend help them yourself don't try to call a company to make them feel better. All they do is cut the stem. When I felt that way shit was going on I couldn't control. But my friends made me feel like I had people who cared about me. I met a girl who's suicidal and tried to make her feel better by being her friend. Turns out she's really nice and now we're best friends. And if your feeling that way yourself, talk to your friends and tell them or someone you trust. Because killing yourself will make there life a living hell. Because no matter what you think people care about you.

Think of it as a beautiful weed.

Allot of people who self harm stick with other self harmers the reason it that they feel safe there and they don’t tell people for a reason it makes them worse I have personal experience with it