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              hello AAA! today's blog

              is about “Loving yourself”!

              It’s the start of a new year

              and also a new decade, we

              should not keep these negative

               emotions in us, and that’s

               what I’ll be doing today ◡̈

           ╰┈─➤ ❝🅢🅣🅐🅡🅣❞

                        ° ｡ ꒰ jᥙ᥉t ᥣᥱt ꧑ᥱ ᥣ᥆᥎ᥱ ᥡ᥆ᥙ ༉‧₊˚ ᥐ៸

                  ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

                 {🗒 ♡̷̷.

                   ﹋﹋﹋

         Can you a time when

         you were disappointed in yourself,     

          wondering: “What’s wrong with

          me? Why do I feel like a failure?”          ، 。°.

           Always feeling like you’re not

           enough too the point where you

           start hating yourself, either because

           of the way you look or your persona-

          -lity or anything that seems to bother

          someone, always wondering “Why

           am I not pretty, why do I look like t h i s”

          Then you frown, going deeper

            down into the rabbit hole.

        “I’m making too many mistakes;

          I just don’t get it right. I often

          fight with others, I never stop

          complaining, and I hate myself

         for what happened that day,                    :cloud:

         so long ago, when it was all

          my fault. I let myself down too

          often. How can I trust myself

          to ever do the right thing?

          Come to think of it, I actually

          don’t even like myself. Loser…”               :partly_sunny:

This is where we enter the self love dilemma.     

.   .   .   .   .   .   .

° ｡꒰ ᥡ᥆ᥙ ᥲrᥱ ꧑ᥡ ᥱᥙρh᥆rιᥲ ༉‧₊˚ ᥐ៸

      ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

{ :open_file_folder: ♡̷̷.

                   ﹋﹋﹋

             This typical trail of thought

             is how most people tend to

             treat self love: as a reward for          :leaves:

             finally becoming the person

              they want to be. This behavior

             implies that their self love is

              subject to them being objectively    ، 。°.

             ‘good’ or ‘successful.’

            “Humans, deep down, love them

              selves more than their favorite

              others (family and loved ones).

              But, as cultural animals, they can

              come to believe that they love          🌙

             their favorite others more than

              they love the self.”

Which means, you already love yourself…

“Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”

.   .   .   .   .   .   .

                         ° ｡꒰ ᥕᥱ bᥣ᥆᥆꧑ ᥙᥒtιᥣ ᥕᥱ ᥲᥴhᥱ ༉‧₊˚ ᥐ៸

                                   ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

                 {🧷 ♡̷̷.

                   ﹋﹋﹋

             Self love is not that desperate

              need to be better or more deserving

              than others. It is not being selfish or

              vain. It is not conditional on certain

              desired outcomes. And it’s not the

              exaggerated sense of importance

              that stems from classic narcissism.

             Self love is open and honest.

             It’s the ultimate commitment; to

              get to know and accept yourself

              as you are. To fully experience life

              as it happens to you. To continually

              seek ways to physically,

              psychologically

              and spiritually grow from these

              experiences.

             True self love is giving yourself

              unconditional respect, appreciation,

              and evaluation of being great. It’s

              reminding yourself that you deserve

              to have all your personal needs met

              while considering yourself as worthy,

              valuable, and deserving of happiness.

             It’s fully knowing – no matter what

              you do, or neglect to do, right or

              wrong – that you’ll always love

              yourself and be true to who you

              are – no matter what.

               ° ｡꒰ ꫀꪜꫀ𝕣ꪗ𝕥ꫝⅈꪀᧁ ᭙ⅈꪶꪶ ᥇ꫀ ꪮ𝕜ꪖꪗ༉‧₊˚ ᥐ៸

               ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

                 { :newspaper: ♡̷̷.

                   ﹋﹋﹋

              You are the center of the universe –

               It all starts with you and ends with

               you. You’re going to be with yourself

               for eternity. Which means you want

               to operate from a place of self-

              loving, rather than self-loathing.

                                        :sparkles: :cloud:

              You care for yourself the most –

               No one else is interested in you –

               your well-being, safety, health,

               happiness, and existence – more

               than you. No one knows better than

               you, what makes you happy, or what

               hurts you most. No one thinks of you

               or exists ready for your rescue,

               or comfort. No one can

               make better choices for you, or give

               you a better opinion of what you need

               to do – other than yourself. No one

               is here for your spiritual growth –

          but you.

              The love you seek does not exist –

               but within you – Herein lies one of

               humanity’s biggest deceptions.

               Love is a desire, of what (pleasures)

               you momentarily felt or experienced

               before, and hope to have again – all of

               the time. But this desire for love from

   ، 。°.   others in itself cannot make you

               happy. Love from other people can

               only make you happy if it adds

               something new, or expand on- or at

               the very least reflect your own self

               love. And loving others can only

               originate from self- love: a reflection

               or expansion of the love you have

               for yourself.

                           .   .   .   .   .   .   .

° ｡꒰ tᥲkᥱ ꧑ᥡ hᥲᥒd᥉ ᥒ᥆ᥕ ༉‧₊˚ ᥐ៸

      ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶

                 { :page_facing_up: ♡̷̷.

                   ﹋﹋﹋

             Loving yourself is powerful.

             It’s that divine relationship you

              build with yourself, which will help

              improve every single aspect of

              your life.

             But self-love is a process,

              one that will never be truly

              complete. There will always

              be more you could improve,

              more you can learn, more

              kindness you can show to

              yourself and others.

             And in the vein of extending

              that kindness to yourself,

             You constantly need reminding

              that yes, you are deeply flawed

              in many ways, but that is

              what makes you human, and

              you deserve love anyway.

             You’re still on the path to loving

             yourself and to knowing and

              living your truth. I can say in

              all honesty that I love myself

              now more than ever, and I

              know I will come to love myself

              more deeply in the future.

            As I began to love myself I found

             that anguish and emotional suffering

            are only warning signs that I was living

             against my own truth. Today, I know,

             this is AUTHENTICITY.

            As I began to love myself I understood

             how much it can offend somebody if I

             try to force my desires on this person,

             even though I knew the time was not

             right and the person was not ready for

             it, and even though this person was

             me. Today I call it RESPECT.

As I began to love myself I stopped

             craving for a different life, and I

             could see that everything that

             surrounded me was inviting me to

             grow. Today I call it MATURITY.

            As I began to love myself I understood

             that at any circumstance, I am in the

             right place at the right time, and

             everything happens at the exactly

             right moment. So I could be calm.

             Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.

            As I began to love myself I quit

             stealing my own time, and I stopped

             deg huge projects for the

             future. Today, I only do what brings

            me joy and happiness, things I love

             to do and that make my heart cheer,

             and I do them in my own way and in

             my own rhythm. Today I call it

             SIMPLICITY.

            As I began to love myself I freed

             myself of anything that is no good

            for my health – food, people, things,

             situations, and everything that drew

             me down and away from myself. At

             first, I called this attitude a healthy

             egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF

             ONESELF.

            As I began to love myself I quit

             trying to always be right, and ever

             since I was wrong less of the time.

             Today I discovered that is MODESTY.

            As I began to love myself I refused to

             go on living in the past and worrying

             about the future. Now, I only live for

            the moment, where everything is

             happening. Today I live each day, day

             by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.

           As I began to love myself I recognized

            that my mind can disturb me and it

            can make me sick. But as I connected

           it to my heart, my mind became a

            valuable ally. Today I call this

            connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and from their collisions, new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS LIFE.

                        /)_/)

       (//ω//)    ⊱

        /     つ♡

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭, 𝐡𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫, 𝐧𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐦 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫...

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“𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡”

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                                             ⇛ꪮᥛtrꪮ ˚◦⸵

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ㅤㅤㅤ                      ╭┈─────── ೄྀ ࿐ˊˎ-

                                  thank you so much for reading

                                  this blog, I know it’s

                                   kinda different but self-

                                  love does really mean

                                  a lot to me and to others

                                  as well, thanks again for

                                   stopping bye, see you

                                  in another blog again

                                  lovelies~ ˘ᵕ˘♡

                                ╰┈─➤ ❝🅔🅝🅓❞

▸ have a beautiful day

              驪䖀騯驪࿔ thank you

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                    :sparkles:                                       ☰

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